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Embracing Change: Theo’s Story

Theo completed the A.C.T. program, a 26-week group program designed for men who have used abuse through JBWS’ Jersey Center for Non-Violence, twenty years ago. He was going through a divorce with his wife and had been court ordered to attend the program. While he didn’t see the benefit to the program at first, slowly Theo began to reflect on his own behavior. He began to acknowledge how he had used power and control against his ex-wife and worked to change his behaviors.

 

After completing the A.C.T. program, Theo noticed that his relationships were healthier. However, this began to change in a more recent relationship. Theo started to recognize that he was falling into similar patterns of verbal abuse and reached out for help.

 

Theo rejoined the A.C.T. program to reinforce the skills he learned twenty years ago and ensure that he keeps his relationship on a healthy course.

 

If you recognize unhealthy behaviors in yourself, then JCNV might be right for you.  Our services are open to men, women, and adolescent males to help them learn alternatives to unhealthy behaviors. Learn more at jbws.org/jcnv  

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